By David Okpala/Stella Okpala
Rev. Fr. Innocent Chinazaekpere Uwakwe has attributed the rising cases of marriage breakdown in society to poor family upbringing, urging couples and parents to model respect, responsibility and healthy relationships for their children.
Fr. Uwakwe made the observation in a homily during Mass at a church in Aguata Local Government Area(LGA) of Anambra State on Sept. 12.
The cleric said responsibility for marital challenges should not rest entirely on either partner, noting that the families and environments that shaped couples before marriage could also influence how they conduct themselves in their homes.
According to him, children who grow up in homes characterised by violence, verbal abuse or substance misuse may be more likely to adopt similar behaviours as they grow older.
“We need to change the way we behave before our children,” he said, stressing that children learn significantly from what they observe at home.
Fr. Uwakwe warned parents against insulting or humiliating their spouses in the presence of their children, noting that such conduct could negatively influence the way children perceive marriage and relationships.
He equally condemned domestic violence, particularly the physical abuse of wives by their husbands, saying children who witness such acts could develop unhealthy attitudes towards the opposite sex and family life.
The priest urged couples to treat each other with dignity and mutual respect, saying a peaceful home requires commitment from both partners.
“We need respect as husband and wife to make the home of our dreams,” he noted.
Fr. Uwakwe encouraged married couples to cultivate forgiveness and resolve disagreements peacefully, stressing that a stable family environment is important for raising children who can contribute positively to society.
He expressed concern about the challenges associated with raising children in single parent households, urging society to pay greater attention to family support and responsible parenting.
The cleric called for a deliberate change in attitudes and parenting practices, warning that failure to address unhealthy patterns of behaviour in families could have wider social consequences in the years ahead.
David Okpala and Stella Okpala are of the Ministry of Information and Value Reformation, Anambra State
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